Brisbanebinight Party Etiquette

 

Please read and understand the way we like to play

 

It is very important when swinging to follow certain rules of etiquette. This will allow for both you and the rest of our fun group, to have a more enjoyable and safer experience.

 

An invitation to a Brisbanebinight party is personal to the person/s it is addressed to. If you wish to introduce your friends to Brisbanebinight please direct them to our website so they can follow the established process.

 

People invited to a Brisbanebinight party are encouraged to bring a donation of nibbles e.g. cheese or dip or chips etc

 

Make sure that before leaving for a Brisbanebinight event that you are well groomed. Shower, shave if necessary, brush your teeth, use deodorant, trim your nails if you like to stimulate your sex partners digitally, etc. There is no bigger turn off than poor hygiene or poor presentation. Also, pack your own bag of toiletries, towels, and safer sex supplies. It is always good to know that you have your favourite lube or condoms on hand.

 

When you are invited to attend a Brisbanebinight party, it is important to arrive with your partner. It is inappropriate to arrive separately and you both need to decide whether you want to always play together or if it is ok to have social time alone at a swing event. If the decision the two of you come to is that you will only have sex play together, it is important that you do not then abandon your partner and do your own thing.

 

The group would be very uncomfortable if you had an argument or loud words with your partner at a Brisbanebinight party, especially in a room where others are having sex or socializing. If you enter into a disagreement, the best thing to do would be to leave the event unobtrusively until you can resolve the conflict in private.

 

It is considered very inappropriate and illegal to arrive at a Brisbanebinight party high or stoned or to bring any illegal substances. It is also considered poor etiquette to become intoxicated at a Brisbanebinight party. Not only is this uncomfortable for the other guests, but you may find yourself doing things that you don't really want to. If you are drunk you may not remember what you did the previous evening. Being stoned or intoxicated can ruin an otherwise healthy enjoyable event.

 

You should never do something with which you are uncomfortable. It is always important to say yes only when you mean yes and to clearly say no when you mean no. Appropriate swing etiquette when turning down a sexual proposition is to simply say, "No, thank you." Do not give an explanation because it is unnecessary and often leads to more hurt than just a simple refusal. If you proposition someone and they say no, never pressure or coerce the person and do not ask for an explanation. The rule at all swing events is that consent is of the utmost importance and that all participants be willing participants.

 

Most Brisbanebinight parties have an open door policy this means that people may come and go from the room freely without asking permission. If someone approaches who you do not wish to play with please say "no thank you".

 

Tell the hosts if another guest causes a problem. We really do want you to be comfortable.

 

Most important of all, relax and have a good time! This is your opportunity to explore your sexuality in a safe and respectful manner.

 

The host of any Brisbanebinight party may ask any person to leave the party at any time .